Happy Friday! If it's Friday, that means it's time to Celebrate the Small Things. This week I'm celebrating that it was my birthday on Tuesday and I had a great birthday. I actually celebrated last weekend and had a great birthday cake, a birthday brownie, and lots of yummy food, all with wonderful people. Can't really ask for more than that.
The Celebrate the Small Things hop is hosted by
Lexa Cain and co-hosted by L.G Keltner at
Writing Off the Edge and Tonja Drecker at
Kidbits. Visit
Lexa's blog here to find out how join in the hop yourself and to see the list of participants.
And now I'm turning things over to Tara Tyler, an 80's girl like me, who is visiting as part of her Cradle Rock release tour. Welcome, Tara!
Teenagers, the 80s to Now!
That sounds like an adult hits radio station… I’m very proud to be a child of the eighties. They were such a bright, positive change from the harsh, psychedelic seventies. We had big bold hair, big bold colors, big bold music, and big bold dreams!
Here are a couple pictures from my teenage years in the 80s…
I can’t believe it’s been thirty years since I graduated from high school! The last twenty went the fastest and I blame my kids. All three boys in their teens - yes, I would like to tear my hair out some days...
Teens today are overloaded with technology, overloaded with activities, and overloaded with stress. With more information comes more responsibility, unfortunately, no one is holding anyone else accountable! I also think they should have time to be kids, too. Here’s my comparison: Teenagers - the 80s vs Now
TEENAGERS!
THE 80s
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TODAY
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In General...
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Smaller world
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The whole wide world!
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Pay phones with cords
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Cell phones and wireless
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Bullies - physically and verbally abusive, seen, heard, known by all
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Cyberbullies - mentally abusive, anonymous trolls who hide and lurk on the internet
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Fashion...
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Jeans - tight w/o stretch, tight-rolled, acid washed, name brands, high-waisted
Big belts, leg-warmers, fluorescents, off-the-shoulder, headbands, chunky jewelry, mini skirts
Eye shadow!
Big hair for all
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Casual - jeans, sweatpants, spandex in everything, leggings (ugh)
Piercings and tattoos
Colorful gym shoes, name brands
Long hair, braids, colorful/dyed, top knots
Beards
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Music...
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Pop, punk, hard rock, rock ballads, funk, insinuated
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Pop, retro!, alternative, songs with a message, rap, blatant, crossover
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Movies & Books & more...
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The Outsiders, Pretty in Pink, Back to the Future, War Games, The Breakfast Club
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Hunger Games, Divergent, The Fault in Our Stars, Harry Potter, Netflix, Youtube!
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Communication...
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Passing notes, talking on the telephone with a cord attached and a time limit
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Texting, snapchat, facetime, etc... limitless!
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TIMELESS UNIVERSAL SIMILARITIES
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Dealing with Relationships - friends, parents, figures of authority, young love
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Growing up - taking on responsibilities, managing time, setting goals
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Getting a job, driving, chores, homework
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Figuring out what you want out of life
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My take on Today’s Teens - Innocence seems lost more quickly these days, but maybe it’s because there’s less shame and more openness which can be good and bad… The internet has brought instant information, instant feedback, instant gratification, but also anonymous antagonism, and TMI self-expression.
Eventually, the cycle begins again with the next generation of teens coming up with new ways to revolt and test their parents’ and societies’ "prudish" ways… I wonder how they’ll turn out! They have to be better than the millenials, right? Ha!
What do you think? Did you love the 80s? What’s wrong/right with today’s teens? Are you ready for the next wave?
Thanks for having me, Julie. Love coming over, and hope to see you more often!
WELCOME BACK TO THE FOREST!
CRADLE ROCK, Beast World Book Two
by Tara Tyler
Gabe the goblin just saved his town Broken Branch Falls from splitting apart. He also revealed that humans--horrible creatures of myth and legend--may actually be part of their history! But seriously? Nah!
Now Ona, Gabe’s girlfriend, is headed thousands of miles away to Camp Cradle Rock for Spring Break seeking evidence of humans. Gabe knows better than to tell a stubborn ogress she’s crazy, so he’s letting her go and spending the break at the beach like a normal teenage beast. And he’s determined to have a good time without her, whether he likes it or not.
But when Gabe hears Ona went missing, he and his friends set out for the wilds of the west to find her, no matter what dangerous creatures get in his way. Not even humans.
Tara Tyler has had a hand in everything from waitressing to rocket engineering. After moving all over, she now writes and teaches math in Ohio with her three active boys and Coach Husband. Currently she has two series,
Pop Travel (techno-thriller detective capers) and
Broken Branch Falls (fantasy adventures). To squeeze in writing, she economizes her time aka the Lazy Housewife. Make every day an adventure!
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